You know how much you love logging into Facebook, Twitter, or the recently launched Google+ to share information or update your status. However you like to use your social platforms, it’s important to learn the social graces of social media, which have become an integral part of our lives. Many people believe that they can do whatever they want with their social media accounts.

This may be true to some extent, but it’s critical to understand that this is a social network, which means you’re not using it alone. You have to be considerate of others, even more so because online communication lacks tone and body language, which would normally help regulate face-to-face interaction. Social media guidelines are not set in stone but are generally agreed upon for better social media interaction. They cannot be exhausted here either, as there are many social platforms that are used differently. Below are some common ones that can be applied to frequently used social networks.

Think before you post

When in doubt about whether or not to share something online, it’s best not to share it. The internet doesn’t really have a delete button. In fact, the rule of thumb is: if you wouldn’t say it in normal conversation, don’t say it on social media. Be careful what you say or share. You never know who sees it and how it can affect you. Also, if you are commenting or replying to something someone has posted, make sure your comments are meaningful and respectful, that there are no spam (irrelevant or inappropriate messages sent over the Internet to a large number of recipients) or comments that are off topic. . offensive gold.

Also, avoid replying to or starting inflammatory messages. If you really feel the need to respond to one, don’t do it right away. Give yourself time to think and give an adequate and objective answer. In fact, it’s best to send a private message, especially if your answer is negative.

Avoid giving TMI (too much information)

Someone once said offhandedly that there was a fine line between “I should tweet that” and “I should talk to my therapist about that.” How many times have you or someone you know posted information deemed too personal on Facebook or Twitter? Refrain from sharing such on social media. Private conversations should also be kept out. Use private inboxes, email, or chat if you have to share information that isn’t visible to everyone. Keep venting frustrations to a minimum. nobody likes a complainer

At the same time, don’t put too much information on your profile. Avoid giving details about where you live or about your children if you have any, among your personal information, for your own safety. Internet is not private.

Photos

Nobody is really interested in seeing a photo of you drunk and passed out at a party. Avoid posting photos of yourself in compromising positions, suggestive photos of anything that others might find offensive. It paints you in a negative light. Also, don’t post photos or tag people in photos without their permission, especially if they’re not close friends. When it comes to photos, it’s always good to have a photo of yourself on your profile, as people like to see who they interact with online. Most people don’t like talking to cartoons or company logos.

Avoid texting

Does it bother you when someone types “Cn wi tlk l8r n 2de?” Space limitation on social media platforms is not common enough to warrant writing one that way. Communicate clearly and in a way that can be understood.

It’s not just about you.

People get tired of people talking about themselves constantly. Social media is for social media. Interact with people. Start conversations, share information and comment on the information others share. People are willing to listen and relate to those who do the same.