Were the old days something about lasting love? Was love more valuable when our grandparents met? How can we find the same lasting love that veteran couples have? What do we do today that destroys families and hearts? The reason marriage is down, divorce is up, and even less staying together after thirty-five years is because we made a wrong decision as a society that now damages the future of love.

We no longer let love happen naturally, we now seek sex, lust, a raunchy good time that overshadows a lifetime of happiness. We are looking for a quick high and never worry about ourselves in the long run. The media has made it worse and influenced a fragile generation that is emerging. Today we have sex, maybe love, then quick love. We no longer let love happen naturally like we should.

Today we catch up after all the days of casual sex and dead ends. Then we rush and push because biology advances. We no longer become best friends for life or admire each other for our soul. Best friends are companions for life just like love. So romance becomes appropriate for two people who respect each other with great love and adoration.

When we follow our heart instead of opinion, we are no longer whores or conformists. That sex be saved to have meaning and heart and keep the number of sexual partners low. Be the best friends in love to admire each other more than anyone on the planet. Let love happen naturally as the world once did.