It can be a difficult world when it comes to finding someone special. It can seem like an endless battle, often one that you are tired of fighting. Telling yourself “The girl of my dreams does not exist” It won’t help you much when it comes to finding the girl of your dreams.

The real problem lies in your way of thinking. You have this Hollywood image of what your perfect girl looks like. And that’s why the girl of your dreams doesn’t exist. Every man has an example, a type or a way in which he imagines the woman he wants to be with. The other problem is not communicating with any woman.

You will have to communicate with women, talk to them and let them get to know you. Men are visual, they get excited this way, women, on the other hand, not. They will be attracted to you based on your insides. This means that you have a chance with any woman you choose.

Negative attitudes and telling yourself that the girl of my dreams does not exist will not do anything for you with girls. Have you ever thought that the girl of your dreams is the one you see every day, but you will never know, you will not be able to, unless you stop hitting yourself and start looking for the girl of your dreams?

I have personally been there, I know how this goes and, more importantly, I know how it ends. If you are looking to find your one true love then you need to know where to start:

• Stop saying to yourself: “The girl of my dreams doesn’t exist.”
• Stop just looking at “hot girls” and remember that you are looking for something real.
• Start talking to women. This is a crucial step, the initial step.
• Get to know some of the women you see every day. Maybe one of them is the one.
• Tell your friends what you are looking for. They can help you and spread the word.

These are only the first, but the most important, that you can do right now when you are looking for your future love. The most important thing is that you have the idea that the girl of your dreams does not exist. I used to say all the time that the girl of my dreams doesn’t exist, and I was wrong.

If I could leave you with the one thing that I always did, and that always contributed to the reason I thought the girl of my dreams doesn’t exist, it was because I ignored the concept that I was the one who had to make it happen.

Sure, she might be able to greet you first, but why wait? All it did for me was keep me guessing and make me more miserable. Do you spend many nights just wishing you weren’t? I certainly did. Do you hate going out to places like the mall, a restaurant, or even a movie because you watch happy couples? I did it, and I did it with great hatred. I was getting it wrong and I wasn’t in shape or in ready shape to be a great contribution to a real and stable relationship.